Tuesday, December 25, 2012
You Never Know What You Have Until Its Gone.
I don't know if it's me but it seems like it's a lot of role reversal going on nowadays. Guys are looking for serious relationships and girls want to be free and see what the world may offer them. This is a complete contrast of what has been happening for generations. Rightfully so women have more power now than they have ever had in history. Because of this power and thirst for life they don't want to be tied down by the constraints of a relationship. I understand this dynamic and I have no quarrel with it. What I will say though is be careful what you wish for ladies. For starters, ladies I'm sure you know better than me that most guys out here aren't worth a damn. Sometimes its hard to see what you have until it is gone. You may have a guy in your life that matches you and meshes with you effortlessly, but since you are always looking towards the next step you may miss that treasure. If you choose the world over a good and loyal guy then be prepared for if that guy is no longer there and you are left stuck with someone that could never love or know you as well as the one you threw to the side.In a lot of cases you change that man and he becomes a better, and a smarter person. You may recognize that what you were doing wasn't worth it and then try to go back, he may never accept you. I totally understand that we are young and we should explore, but don't fool yourself. It's kind of like gambling in Las Vegas, you can get lucky and hit the jackpot but if you aren't satisfied and go back in and try to win again you will most likely fail, and fail miserably.